Showing posts with label self improvement. Show all posts
Showing posts with label self improvement. Show all posts

Tuesday, February 7, 2012

bosan dengan penat?

ok sy sgt faham laa kan perasaan bosan penat..penat bosan..
especially when exams are around the corner with the addition to the readily soaring pile high assignments, thesis, presentations etc..
plus yg stay kat japan n will back for good ni mana nk packing brg lagi..
it requires heaps of mental n physical stamina!

so while i was reciting the quran..my eyes pointed at this one verse " sungguh, Kami telah menciptakan manusia berada dalam susah payah " (90:4)

ayat ini membuatkan sy berfikir sekejap..
in other words, if we're feeling that life is always easy and smooth sailing,

then there MUST be something wrong because Allah already said He has created us in toil..

we get tired with being tired..
we get tired with hardships..
but its those factors that keep us moving..
take it positively..
sometimes Allah tests us because He "misses" us..
and most of the time hardships make us feel closer to Him..
and it helps us understand His Words better ^_^

soooo..rakan2 sekelian..i know we are strong enough to face those hardships..be not sad!Allah is with us!
ALLAH KNOWS BEST=)



Wednesday, November 2, 2011

i.k.h.l.a.s

anda rasa anda ikhlas dlm membuat sesuatu??
moh le kite belajar pasal IKHLAS ni spy kita bole jadi ikhlas dgn setiap apa yg kita buat..
ikhlas ni dtg dari HATI..yg bermaksud kita lakukan sesuatu demi mencari keredhaan Allah..
tanpa disertai dgn hawa nafsu, pangkat & kedudukan, kemasyhuran, pujian etc...
sooo..marilah kita sentiasa memperbetulkan niat kita sebelum memulakan sesuatu utk medapat keredhaan Allah n secara x lgsg dpt dekatkan diri kita dgn pencipta kita..
berusaha!!huhu

insyaAllah kalau kita ikhlas iman bole bertambah..
kalau kita x ikhlas camne Allah nk terima amal/perbuatan kita tu..so kalo x ikhlas, kebarangkalian utk x dpt pahala tu tinggi..
niat tanpa ikhlas adalah sia-sia..

"dan Kami hadapi segala amal yang mereka kerjakan, lalu kami jadikan amal itu sebagai debu berterbangan" (Al-Furqan:23)

dr ayat diatas dptlah kita simpulkan yang Allah menilai sesuatu amal melalui keikhlasan yg dtg dr hati..bukan dr rupa n bentuk amal yg dilakukan semata-mata..

so, kita kena teliti n nilai amal yg kita lakukan sentiasa ikhlas x kira di rumah, tmpt kerja, tmpt bljr etc n mengikut syarak supaya masa&tenaga yg kita gunakan tidak sia-sia n amal kita diterima sbg amal soleh..

hanya dgn keikhlasan dpt membantu kita mengawal diri atau keinginan tersembunyi yg lebih bahaya daripada daripada apa-apa yg kelihatan..wallahualam..

*hasil dari pembacaan..sedang belajar mengikhlaskan diri..huhu



Wednesday, October 26, 2011

"kecantikkan wanita"

love to hear from her..n this advice agak terkesan dlm hati..may Allah guides me n the family to the right path..

watch this video woman..nice advice indeed..below are the links(part 1, part 2, part 3)


Wednesday, July 27, 2011

life is beautiful!

"Oh Allah, teach me to love others just like I love myself, teach me to judge myself just like I judge others. And if I have wronged anyone,give me the courage to apologize, and if anyone wronged me, give me the courage to forgive because you have taught me that forgiveness is the highest level of strength and revenge is the highest level of weakness. And I ask you not to forget me in your forgiveness.."



beautiful doa indeed..

Sunday, June 19, 2011

S.Y.U.K.U.R

day 458 with dearest hubby..alhamdulillah syukurr..
dan tadi terbaca tentang grateful(syukur)..14:7..

"and [remember] when your Lord proclaimed, "if you are grateful, I will surely increase you [in favor], but if you deny, indeed, My punishment is severe"

dan (ingatlah) tatakala Tuhan kamu memberitahu: "Demi sesungguhnya! Jika kamu bersyukur nescaya Aku akan tambahi nikmatKu kepada kamu, dan demi sesungguhnya, jika kamu kufur ingkar sesungguhnya azabKu amatlah keras"

sungguh menusuk ayat ni masa terbaca tadi..huhu
adakah anda bersyukur setiap hari setiap masa?ataupun hanya bersyukur jika mendpt sesuatu yg best or doa anda diperkenankan shj?(bertnya pd diri sendiri juga)hehe..

syukur ni kalau kita faham dia adalah satu tuntutan..kalau kita bersyukur bermakna kita terima dgn semua yg diberi Allah dan kalau Allah x bagi tu jgn la sedih..sabar..maybe Dia ada yg lebih baik utk kita nnti..who knows..

dan kalau kita bersyukur kita x kan persoalkan apa yg Allah jadikan utk kita..
kalau kita mendapat kesenangan/nikmat kita bersyukur sbb ia adalah kebaikan dan bila mendapat kesusahan kita bersabar sbb ia juga adalah kebaikan bagi kita..ni kalau ditimpa susah sket dah give up..mengeluh salahkan org lain/nasib/takdir..meminta-minta..diri sendiri boleh je atasi kesusahan tu kalau berusaha n bersabar..

dan pernah terdengar org berkata "nikmat Allah dtg sekali sekala..maka hendaklah kita bersyukur"
nikmat Allah tu bukannya dtg sekali sekala n bukan masa dpt nikmat tu je kita bersyukur..tapi nikmat Allah tu hampir setiap saat..kita tidur,dpt bernafas,dpt berjln,dpt mkn minum,etc semua tu adalah nikmat..bygkan kalau kita x dpt tidur..kan tensen..so hidup seharian kita tu penuh dgn nikmat sebenarnye maka setiap hari setiap masa kena bersyukur..

cara bersyukur tu bukan dengan ucap Alhamdulillah(lisan) shj..selain lisan kita boleh bersyukur dgn hati(dktkan diri dgn Allah,amar ma'ruf nahi munkar etc),perbuatan(guna pd jln Allah,sedekah etc)..

org yg x bersyukur x kan cukup/puas hati dgn apa yg dimiliki..apa yg kita ada malah diri kita sendiri ni pun hanya lah dipinjamkan sahaja..nnt semuanya akan dikembalikan ke tempat asal masing2..berpada-padalah dgn apa yg dimiliki..

dan nampakkan lah nikmat yang Allah berikan sesuai dgn batasnya..
selalulah ingt nikmat yg telah diberikan so that kita akan lebih bersyukur..lebih byk bersykur lebih byk berkat n nikmat yg kita akan dpt mcm dlm ayat diatas tu insyaAllah..

*kalau salah/apa yg terkurg silalah tegur..ini apa yg saya faham je..ganbare diri sendiri!



Thursday, February 3, 2011

where you can find barakah??

I've found this article is very interesting..so would like to share it with others..

If we were to look for an Islamic definition of Productivity, it can probably be summarised in the word “barakah” or Blessing. Being able to achieve more with few resources, doing much in little time, and generating a lot with little effort is surely a blessing from Allah (Subahanahu Wa Ta’ala). Yet Barakah has somehow become a lost treasure these days; everyone’s looking for it, but no one seems to find it! You always hear people complaining that there’s no barakah in their time, no barakah in their sleep, no barakah in their money and the rest of it.

In this article, we’ll solve this mystery inshaAllah: we’ll find out what Barakah is and where you can find it!
What is Barakah?

A Well-known daee explains it as follows:
والبركة: هي ثبوت الخير الإلهي في الشيء؛ فإنها إذا حلت في قليل كثرته، وإذا حلت في كثير نفع، ومن أعظم ثمار البركة في الأمور كلها إستعمالها في طاعة الله عز وجل.

“Barakah is the attachment of Divine goodness to a thing, so if it occurs in something little, it increases it. And if it occurs in something much it benefits. And the greatest fruits of Barakah in all things is to use that barakah in the obedience of Allah (Subahanahu Wa Ta’ala)”

Sources of Barakah

I’m a firm believer that Barakah is not a lost treasure, rather, it’s right in front of our eyes! This treasure is only available and ready to be handed over to the one who works for it. Below, I list some of the sources of Barakah. It’s not an exhaustive list, therefore, I do hope you can contribute to it with your comments inshaAllah so we can all share and extend our understanding of this great treasure at ProductiveMuslim.com!

1. Good Intentions

If you want something to have barakah attached to it, have good intentions for it. More specifically, make sure that deed is intended for the sake of Allah (Subahanahu Wa Ta’ala). Looking again at the definition of Barakah, you may guess that without us intending what we have or do for the Sake of Allah, the “Divine goodness” won’t be found in our deeds.

2. Piety and Belief in Allah

Allah says in the Quran: “If the people of the towns had but believed and feared Allah, We should indeed have opened out to them (All kinds of) blessings from heaven and earth…”(Surah Al-A’raf, Verse 96). And He says in the Quran: “And for those who fear Allah, He (ever) prepares a way out. And He provides for him from (sources) he never could imagine” (Surah Al-Talaq, Verses 2-3).

3. Putting your trust in Allah

Allay says in the Quran: “And if any one puts his trust in Allah, sufficient is (Allah) for him. For Allah will surely accomplish his purpose. Verily, for all things has Allah appointed a due proportion” (Surah Al-Talaq, verses 3)
Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: “If only you relied on Allah a true reliance, He would provide sustenance for you just as He does the birds: They fly out in the morning empty and return in the afternoon with full stomachs. (Ahmad, An-Nasa’I, Ibn Majah, Al-Hakim and At-Tirmidhi)

4. Reading Quran

This is the fountain of Barakah! But subhanaAllah, we rarely drink from it! Allah says in the Quran: “And this is a Book which We have sent down, bringing blessings, and confirming (the revelations) which came before it…” (Surah Al-An’am, Verse 92). So read the Quran, and observe the blessings and barakah of Allah enter your life. The further we are from this Book of Guidance, the less barakah we will have in our lives.

5. Saying Bismillah

When you say “Bismillah” before anything you do, you’re invoking the Name of Allah on that activity; not only will that activity be blessed but shaytaan cannot take part in it! So always say “Bismillah” before anything you do! mSubhanaAllah, it’s easy for us to forget to say “Bismillah”. Sometimes we’re so used to saying it that we cannot remember whether we said it or not! Try to be conscious of saying “Bismillah” and understand what you’re saying before your action is performed.

6. Eating with People

Anyone who has had the experience of inviting guests to his/her house will know this one. No matter how little you think the food you’re presenting to your guest is, it’s always more than enough! (Note: this is not an excuse to be miserly when you invite guests over; in fact we should follow the Sunnah of our Prophet Ibrahim (peace be upon him) whom when visited by the angels prepared a large meal for them). What I’m referring to here is the blessing that occurs when eating together, confirmed in the hadeeth of Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) who said: “Eat together, for blessing is in Jamma’a (congregation or being together)…” and in another hadeeth:“Whoever has food enough for two persons, should take a third one, and whoever has food enough for four persons, should take a fifth or a sixth (or said something similar).” (Bukhari, Volume 4. Book 56. Number 781)

7. Honesty in Trade

This is for all of the business people out there (include ebayers!). We shouldn’t assume lying and deceiving people will make our trade profitable. On the contrary, it will remove the blessing from your trade. Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said:“The buyer and the seller have the option of canceling or confirming the bargain unless they separate, and if they spoke the truth and made clear the defects of the goods, then they would be blessed in their bargain, and if they told lies and hid some facts, their bargain would be deprived of Allah’s blessings”.( Bukhari, Volume 3, Book 34, Number 293)

Yes, it’s difficult to be honest when you’re trying to sell something, but trust me it’s worth it.

8. Dua

Ask Allah for barakah! If you take note of some of the Duas of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) you’ll notice that the Prophet used to make dua for barakah. We always say: “May Allah bless you!” Well, guess what? That’s a source of barakah! Also, when you’re invited to someone’s house, Prophet Muhammad advised us to make the following dua for the host: “O Allah, bless for them, that which You have provided them, forgive them and have mercy upon them.”

9. Halal Income/money

Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: “O people, Allah is good and He therefore, accepts only that which is good” (Scholars say this refers to Halal income and the importance of it).

A scholar also said of the one who eats Haram, that his limbs will disobey Allah whether he likes it or not, and that the one who eats Halal and seeks Halal income, his limbs will also do good and will be given the permission to seek goodness.

This concept of your limbs being ‘blessed’ and enabled to do good is truly a blessing and a barakah we should all seek. It reminds me of a story of an old man who jumped a large distance that the young men were unable to jump. When the young men asked the old man how he did it, he replied: “These are our limbs: we protected them from committing sins when we were young, so Allah preserved them for us when we got old”.

10. Following the Sunnah of Prophet Muhammad in everything

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, the most Productive Man in the history of humanity is our beloved Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him). Therefore, by simply following his lifestyle and the acts of Sunnah we so often hear about, we obtain a great source of Barakah!

Some of these Sunnahs include: eating Suhoor, eating with the right hand from the side of the plate, going out for Eid Salah, licking your fingers after finishing your meal, sleeping on your right hand side, using the siwaak, and many more. Look out for these Sunnahs and follow them, for imitating the life of the most blessed man on earth is surely a source of blessing!

11. Praying Istikhara

Praying istikhara in all matters and then leaving the outcome to Allah as well as accepting His Decree is a great source of barakah. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) taught us this beautiful dua which helps us make decisions and not regret the choices we make in the following hadeeth:
On the authority of Jaabir Ibn ‘Abdullah he said: “The Prophet (peace be upon him) would instruct us to pray for guidance in all of our concerns, just as he would teach us a chapter from the Qur’an. He (peace be upon him) would say: ‘If any of you intends to undertake a matter then let him pray two supererogatory units (two rak’ah optional nafil) of prayer and after which he should supplicate:
‘O Allah, I seek Your counsel by Your knowledge and by Your power I seek strength and I ask You from Your immense favour, for verily You are able while I am not and verily You know while I do not and You are the Knower of the unseen. O Allaah, if You know this affair -and here he mentions his need- to be good for me in relation to my religion, my life, and end, then decree and facilitate it for me, and bless me with it, and if You know this affair to be ill for me towards my religion, my life, and end, then remove it from me and remove me from it, and decree for me what is good wherever it be and make me satisfied with such.”

One who seeks guidance from his Creator and consults his fellow believers and then remains firm in his resolve does not regret for Allah has said:
‘…and consult them in the affair. Then when you have taken a decision, put your trust in Allah…” [Quran 3: 159]

12. Giving thanks to Allah in abundance

Allah says in the Quran: “If ye are grateful, I will add more (favours) unto you”. A scholar once told me that if one looks into this verse, the Arabic word that is used to confirm that Allah Wills favours unto the person who thanks Him is actually in the form of an Oath – “La azidannakum”. So Allah is promising the person who thanks Him an increase in goodness and blessings, and Allah never breaks His promises.

13. Charity

In a Hadeeth Qudsi, Allah says: “O son of Adam, spend (in charity), and I’ll spend on you!” Whenever you are broke, or you feel barakah is zapped out of your life and urgently need it to return, the quickest of way of gaining barakah in your life can be through giving charity. For example, let’s say barakah was removed from your life due to a sin you committed; charity cleanses your sins, adds good deeds and is a source of barakah.

I cannot describe the instantaneous gratification of giving charity and the barakah that follows it. Try it NOW!

14. Tying your ties of kinship

Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet said, “Allah created His creation, and when He had finished it, the womb, got up and caught hold of Allah whereupon Allah said, “What is the matter?’ On that, it said, “I seek refuge with you from those who sever the ties of Kith and kin.” On that Allah said, “Will you be satisfied if I bestow My favours on him who keeps your ties, and withhold My favours from him who severs your ties?” On that it said, “Yes, O my Lord!” Then Allah said, “That is for you.” Abu Huraira added: “If you wish, you can recite: ‘Would you then if you were given the authority do mischief in the land and sever your ties of kinship?” (Bukhari, Volume 6. Book 60. Number 354)

15. Waking up early

Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: “Allah made the early hours blessed for my Ummah.”(Ahmed)

This hadeeth was what spurred me to create ProductiveMuslim.com! Such gems of productivity are the sources of blessings which we should seek to make our life productive. Waking up early is such an important step to being blessed and feeling good throughout your day.
Try to wake up for Tahajjud, and then work during the hours before Fajr Salah. If you cannot, then at least wake up for Fajr and stay up till sunrise before you return to sleep. Those hours are filled with Barakah. If you’re able to go to work in those hours, do so, you’ll get much more work done than the whole day put together!

16. Marriage

Allah says in the Quran: “Marry those among you who are single, or the virtuous ones among yourselves, male or female: if they are in poverty, Allah will give them means out of His grace: for Allah encompasseth all, and He Knoweth all things.” (Quran 24:32)

Speaking of marriage, I highly recommend the following training course to anyone seriously thinking of getting married: www.Practimate.com.

17. Salah

Allah says in the Quran: “Enjoin prayer on thy people, and be constant therein. We ask thee not to provide sustenance: We provide it for thee. But the (fruit of) the Hereafter is for righteousness”. To illustrate the point of Salah further, just imagine your life without this great act of ibadah. Where would Barakah come from? For those of you who are still wavering in your Salah, please get back on track; this is your lifeline for the final destination in the hereafter, and the daily food for your soul.

18. Asking Allah for forgiveness

The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: “If anyone continually asks forgiveness from Allah, Allah will appoint for him a way out of every distress, and a relief from every anxiety, and will provide for him from where he did not reckon.”

I hope this covers most of the sources of Barakah, but as I said before, this is not an exhaustive list. Please add your sources and recommend more tips for us to share.

Thursday, August 12, 2010

kisah dialog rasulullah s.a.w dgn iblis laknatullah tentang puasa

Rasulullah s.a.w telah menyoal Iblis tentang puasa,sabda rasulullah s.a.w :"wahai Iblis! Apakah umatku berpuasa dengan nama Allah, apakah rasa engkau?" Berkata Iblis:"Ya Nabi Allah, inilah satu bencana yang amat besar bahayanya kepada hamba, kerana apabila masuknya bulan Ramadhan, maka akan memancarlah cahaya dari Asry dan Kursi dan semua malaikat akan menyambut dengan kesukaan. Bagi mereka-mereka yang puasa akan mendapat sebesar-besar kurnia Allah s.a.w. dan Allah s.w.t akan mengampuni segala dosa yang telah lalu dan digantikan dengan pahala yang amat besar dan tidak ditulis segala kesalahannya selama ia berpuasa. Yang menghancurkan lagi hati hamba ialah segala isi langit, bulan,bintang,malaikat,burung-burung,ikan-ikan di laut dan ikan-ikan di air tawar, juga tiap-tiap yang bernyawa diatas muka bumi ini semuanya akan mendoakan siang dan malam meminta ampun bagi orang yang berpuasa.

Satu lagi ketinggian dan kemuliaan bagi orang yang berpuasa ialah dimerdekakan oleh Allah swt. tiap-tiap hari dalam bulan Ramadhan seribu kemerdekaan dari azab neraka dan ditutupkan segala pintu neraka serta dibukakan semua pintu syurga yang lapan.Dan bertiupnya angin yang di bawah Asry yang bernama angin Syirah.Angin yang sangat lembut melalui ke dalam syurga, maka pada hari bermulanya umat tuan hamba berpuasa. Akan datang malaikat dengan garangnya tiada terbilang lawan lakunya menangkap hamba dengan perintah Allah swt. berserta dengan bala tentera hamba yang terdiri dari jin, syaitan dan ifrit, lalu dipasang kaki dan tangan dengan besi panas serta dirantai hamba sekelian dimasukkan ke bawah bumi yang amat dalam dengan beberapa azab sengsara, maka hamba terpaksa menunggu sehingga selesai umat tuan hamba dari berpuasa dan selepas itulah baharu hamba dilepaskan supaya hamba tidak mengacau mereka itu dan umat tuan hamba sendiri yang telah merasa kesenangan berpuasa.

"Sebagaimana mereka berkerja untuk makan sahur waktu tengah malam seorang diri tanpa takut seperti malam-malam yang lain."

berdasarkan kisah diatas maka marilah kita same2 mengingatkan diri sendiri dan org lain di bulan ramadhan yg mulia ni utk mendekatkan diri kpd Allah swt..lagipun dlm bulan ni la sume pengacau2 kite dirantai dan diikat supaya kita dpt melakukan amal ibadat dgn baik..dlm Al-Quran ada menyatakan tujuan sbnr berpuasa ni kenape..tujuannnye adalah untuk bertaqwa kpd Allah(refer surah al-baqarah ayat 183..bile bulan ramadhan konpem kat ceramah mane ayat ni kuar)..hehe..marilah kita merajinkan diri tambahkan amal..biar sikit tp berterusan..mudah-mudahan Allah s.w.t akan kuatkan iman kita utk beribadat kepadaNya..insyaAllah pahala amal di bln ni sgt bsr nk dibndingkan dgn bln2 yg lain..bulan ramadhan dtg hanya sekali setahun..n kedtgannye x menjamin yg kita akan tetap berjumpa lagi dengannya setiap tahun..mebe tahun ini tahun yg terakhir kita bertemu dengannya..so..jgnlah kita mensia-siakan bulan yg mulia ini..copy paste dr sms ayah kpd sy.."semoga Ramadhan dan puasa kita diberkati Allah hendakNya insyaAllah".. minna gambarimasyou!!demi redha Allah...

p/s:try utk x tinggalkan sahur sbb byk barokahnye sahur diakhir waktu..bkn mkn sblm tido ye..huhu

Wednesday, July 7, 2010

tibe2 rajin menaip

dah bape lame la tinggal blog neh..tetibe hari ni rajin pulak nk menaip..
huhu..bkn xnk update tp lately..kerajinan utk membaca mengatasi kerajinan untuk menaip@menulis..
bile membaca byk bnda nih rase diri ini mcm byk sgt je bnda yg x tahu..
so keinginan utk membaca tu bertambah-tambah bile rase camtu..
maka terabailah blog ini sementara waktu smpi ke hari ini..hehe
tgk cam cantik je tarikh hari nih..pastu br teringat..7/7 ni tanabata festival..patut la tgk jepun2 ade yg tulis derang nye wish pastu gantung2 kat buluh..merepek je derang neh..hihi..
n sedar x sedar hari ni pun dah hari ke-110 saya menjalani kehidupan bersama encek hubby(^_^)..rase cam baru je kawen..tapi dah dkt 3 bln lbey da..jap jer masa berlalu..moga2 kami dirahmati dan diberkati selalu~
kdg2 slalu gak terfikir..btul ke sume decision yg dibuat ni..x silap ke..pastu bile fikir camtu last2 nk sedapkan hati mesti sy wat conclusion owh..sume ni dah ditentukan..sume adalah qada' Allah..iskkk..bole ke fikir camtu..pastu 1 day tu de la terbaca pasal qada' ni..cerita nye cam ni..
dlm hidup ni ade 2 bahagian yg kite sedar or x..
1)diri kita dikuasai..2)diri kita menguasai..
yang first tu la qada' sbnrnye..n qada' ni la yg byk dlm hidup seharian kita..
contohnye la kita tgh drive dgn berhati hatinye on da road, then tetibe ade keta dari arah lain eksiden n keta dia terpelanting masuk dlm jalan kita, padahal ada pembahagi jalan n akibatnye kita terlibat sama.
so ni la cthnya diri kita dikuasai, kita x leh wat papepun nk elak situasi tu dr berlaku kat kita, cth len yang kita tau mcm soal jodoh, rezeki dan ajal. actally kita tidak akan di hisab atas perkara2 yg kita dikuasai ni. kita hanya akan dihisab atas perkara yang diri kita yang menguasai.
contohnye la..rezeki.. kita bekerja dgn jujur@amanah utk cari rezeki, tp rezeki itu diluar bidang kuasa kita,kdg2 kerja bagai nk rak cari rezeki tp x pnh cukup..either rezeki kita byk or sikit hasil kerja kita tu sume Allah yg tentukan, but kerja kita yang amanah itu yang akan dinilai oleh Allah.
cth len kita cari rezeki dgn cara rasuah or mencuri, bukan jumlah hasil curian itu yang dihisab, yang dihisab itu ialah perbuatan mencuri itu.
so dari cth2 diatas kita bole nampak yang mencuri atau bekerja itu dikuasai oleh diri kita sendiri, kita boleh membuat pilihan untuk mencari rezeki cara yang halal or cara yang haram.
bila kita terlalu memikir hal qada' yang sbnrnye diluar kawalan kita, ia bole merugikan kita sbb bole menyekat kita dari melakukan sesuatu yang mungkin lebih baik.
cthnye..ajal..kebanyakan kita skrg takut mati, padahal mati itu bukan dlm kawalan kita. byk org fikir owh xpe..if buat jahat pun kalu nk mati..mati jugak..mmg la ajal tu dah ditentukan tp kita kena fikir nnt nk mati dlm redha Allah or x?mmg diri kita dikuasai(ajal dah ditentukan) tp kite perlu menguasai diri kita(berusaha nk jd baik setiap masa so that bila tiba ajal kita nnt, kita dalam keredhaan Allah)
kesimpulannya kita x perlu abeskan masa kita utk fikir hal-hal qada' yang sememangnya diluar kemampuan kita. but pe yg kita perlu buat adalah berfikir atau mencari jalan yang terbaik spy diredhai Allah utk melakukan sesuatu yang didalam kawalan kita.
bile baca artikel tu baru la tersedar dari lamunan..chewah..hehe..sekiannn..