Thursday, October 11, 2012

Domestic engineer

cehhh post title nmpk cam gempakk je kan..hehe
sbb rmi sgt tnye best ke x jadi domestic engineer(read: housewife) ni, so let's story my own experience..
mcm la da lame sgt kan jd domestic engineer nye nk story mory..
xpela..share ape yg bole je la ekk..

ok..everyday was a day of waking up early to prepare breakfast for hubby, doing the house chores..etc..etc(the list goes on)..
percayalah jd housewife sbnrnye lg bizi dr engineer2..cikgu2..office ladies..etc2 kat luar tu..
sbb apa??sbb ade je bnda nk dibuat..mmg x duk diam..done one work then move to another work..
plus ada baby..mmg byk masa habis kat dia kot..baby needs more attention..
tv pun kdg2 je tgk(x suka sgt tgk tv pun)..
xpercaya???nahhh..try on your own..

hehe..rmi laa duk ckp awat laaa hang x kerja dah duk blaja tinggi2 tuu..
nakkk je jwb...tuan2 puan2 sekalian sy xde la blaja tinggi mana pun..dah suami suh duk umah jaga anak dulu..sy follow je la...redha suami lg penting ye dari tuan2 dan puan2..hehe..tp x la jwb gtu..
yg lg best bile ade pulak komen2 yg lain ckp anak bole hntr nursery..babysitter kan byk.. blablabla...
tahan je la mendengar..x baik menjawab kan kan kan..hehe

mmg susah org nk fhm kita kalo die xde kat tempat kita..
tuan2 puan sekelian sy bkn xmo keje..tp me n hubby plan biar la anak tu besar sikit..at leaaast la kan..6 mths old(da bole start mkn solid food)..then baru lega sket nk bg baby kat org..
lgpun harith xmo hisap botol..nk direct breastfeed je..akan try sikit demi sedikit nk bg die hisap botol balik..
dgr kes2 baby zaman skrg lg la menyebabkan rasa berat je hati nk hntr anak kt org..
ibu ku srh je tinggalkan harith kt semenanjung biar die jaga tp xmo la..dah tua2 tu biar la die berehat..kalo jaga baby semudah menghafal sifir 2 xpe la jugak..hehe..

best sbnrnye jd housewife ni..
dpt blaja main masak2 utk family sendiri..dpt jaga anak sendiri..tgk die membesar depan mata..
dpt tolong hubby buat ape yang boleh..etc..etc..
everything u do on your own..so dpt blaja byk bnda kot..
mmg x dpt duit byk2 mcm yg bekerja tp puas hati dpt buat sendiri sume n insyaAllah pahala bekerja utk family ada..

as for now sy mmg bz sbb have to take care of my youngest sis-in-law too sbb my in laws pergi haji..
feel like i have 2 babies right now..
small baby n big baby..hehe..
bila jaga youngest sis in law ni lg laa blaja byk benda..me n hubby have to prepare ourself with many thing to educate our children later dlm dunia yg semakin penuh dugaan dan cabaran ini..
rasa mcm beza sgt kanak2 zaman skrg dgn kanak2 zaman kita kecik2 dulu..

ape2 pun..sumenye kena discuss dengan suami masing2 dulu..
bekerja or x bekerja atas pandangan n kehendak masing2..
x kisah kerja apa2 pun..our effort, our sincerity insyaAllah will be appreciated by Allah SWT..

"women"
-as a daughter, you are the protector of your parents from the fire of jahannam..
-as a wife, you are half the deen of your husband..you protect your husband..
-as a mother, jannah is under your feet..


GOOD LUCK WOMEN!!