Sunday, January 31, 2010

seteresss wit your relationship??

Lately few people story bout their relationship to me(good listener kah diri ini??)..n of course sume nye bout relationship yg xbest utk didgr(sdg bermasalah or dah break up)..relationship yg sy x sangka-sangka sumenye akn terjd begitu..yela..future is unpredictable kan..we only can plan it but Allah yg menentukan segala-galanye rite?sy hnye mmpu mndgr n give my best opinion to them..of course u will be sad, stress, very low motivation when u cant have the things that u ever wanted n dreamed of..n kdg2 bg org2 yg dah engaged tu..makin dekat tarikh nk kawen makin kuat la syaitan2 menghasut kan??so..sabar..cuba utk bersabar n teruskan bersabar..there is no point of asking others' opinions when u urself have tried so hard n yet u still have strong doubts about it...the more u doubt about it the more u will be stressed!!many reasons can end up your relationship but whatever it is..dont judge the person coz afraid that it might happen to us someday..terima sahaja dgn hati yg redha..if there is still hope for u then it will be..if not..ape bole buat;D~

for me, communication is sooooo important in a relationship..if ade prob, sit down n discuss bout it..try to overcome all da probs..try to think what is da best thing for both of u n if u feel u cant give commitment towards ur relationship, u'll know it..its going to be a long2 journey and dont afraid to tell ur partner bout it..dont ever think your partner will go angry if u break the relationship..think about urself and ur future..a new chapter will begin after that..

yes..u have known him/her for a long time..n u already made promises wit them..but don't worry bout dat..sume org make mistakes..if they abandon u..u have friends n family rite??go n have fun wit them..u are not alone!!

n one more..DON'T BOTHER what other people might say..u know yourself better than the others kan??biarlah ape org nk ckp eventho sakit juga la telinga ni dgr kan??so...silelah buat2 x dgr n buat2 x tahu jer...:)

Dont love your past memories coz actually it was a gift..maybe ianya merupakan meaningful experience before u meet the right one in da future..so dat u'll become a better person in the next relationship..agree x?agree x??

For those yg rasa dirinya dipermainkan..as i said before u will feel down..but dont let urself terus-terusan down..silalah rasa bersyukur kerana Allah lebih tau ape yg terbaik utk hamba-hambaNya..which mean u definitely deserve the right one for u someday(or maybe very soon?)..who knows...sila dont hate them bcoz mybe in da future u will smile n rasa bersyukur when u looking back at those histories which made you the person you are at dat time..;D

Move on..do whatever u want..dont let yourself being defeated by ur feeling..if u cant move on, try not to forget bout ur ex..try not to hate them bcoz the more u try, the more u'll remember them(maybe?)..time maybe cant heal the wounds but the next person in your life maybe(^_^)


ohhh..apekah yg sy tulis ini??huhu..hopefully it will help u guys...thats just my opinion ok..not a fact!!

Friday, January 29, 2010

salahkan ronbun aka thesis!

ok..sory rakan2..lame blog ini x diupdate..bout almost 2 months..hihi..sume salah ronbun aka thesis..sume die nye psl..hari2 kena taip ronbun smpi xleh nk update blog(tipu la sgt kan?)..tp comment2 kat fb bule pulak kan??hihi..bese la..i noe rakan2ku sekelian tgh berjuang bz se bz bz nyer ngan thesis, presentation, gaiyou(pe ni ek dlm bm?mls pk;p),script n all da things yg berkaitan utk membulekan kite grad.. marilah berusaha bersame-same!wpun tensen setensen tensenyer kan?mane x tensen..senior nye fussy mengalahkan sensei!!!(agree wit me??angkat tgn!!)...gaiyou ku shj tah bape kali kena pulang blk x tau la..kena ceramah lg(kalu ceramah yg mmberangsangkan xpe la jugak)...hihi...kelmarin akibat mls utk mendgr segala bebelan sy bertekad utk pulang awal setelah menghantar gaiyou kpd senior..lg due org mamat jepun grup sy bersungguh sungguh suruh sy balik cpt2...mane x nye..sbb derang pun nk balik cpt gak xmo kena bebel...kekeke..akibatnye smpi hari ni die x pulang2 gaiyou tersebut utk kami betulkan sebab da 2 hari smlm n hari ni die x dtg..tggu je la isnin ni utk dibebel(mungkin)~hehe..owh..tlg la sy..perasaan utk blk ke msia semakin x tertahan..takut nk present nnt tp nk abeskan cepat coz ingin cepat merdeka..tah ape la soalan yg akan ditnye nnt..sensei..tlg la bg sy grad..sy nk pulang..sy xmo dah duduk kat lab tu lagiiii..kekeke..doa2kan lah sy dpt grad dgn jayanye..ameen~n one more things blog ini lame x diupdate sbb memikirkan wedding sy nnt(owh..i will get married??sungguh tidak percaye!!tp kena percaya jugak!!)..if ikut my plan sy mahu bln 9 a week after raya bcoz time tu kan summer holiday..so my frens here can come la sbb mebe rmi yg blk raya kan??n want to make all the preparation by myself..sng sket if sy de kat msia kan xde la kelam kabut nnt kan??but after discussion dey all decided to make it all on march!!aiyoo..so cepat!!lps dey all discuss mlm tu ayah call sy gtau n sy da bising2 "ayah!!camne ni!!bukan bln 9 ke??cmne nk prepare!!kak ngah kat cni!!cmne itu...blaablaablaaa...cmne ini...blaablaablaa..."...kekeke..punye la risau..n ayah reply "dun wori sume mak n ayah settlekan nnt.."owh..so terharu~~sorry family sy..have to susahkan u all..sy yg nk kawen dey all lak yg kena prepare utk sy...huhu.sy kat cni hanye mampu memberi idea n terima shj ape yg mereka inginkan..huhu..i trust u mom n dad!!smgoa semuanya dipermudahkan..last wish for this entry...to all my frens here, we have been working hard for about 5 years to reach till this stage so ALL DA BEST n GUDLUCK for your thesis n presentation!!!after that MERDEKA!!yeay..insyaAllah~~